When you want kids to eat vegetables they don’t like it’s easy to smother them in ketchup and fork them in. But what do you do with disease, divorce and death, especially when they all strike at once? What if you want to do more than just survive? What if you want to thrive - and thrive with style?

When you hit a rough patch, the first thing people do is throw cliches at you: when one door closes another one opens, smile and the world smiles with you, every cloud has a silver lining.

Doesn't it take more than just looking for silver linings?